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Some time during the early summer months of 1991, I met Ray
McCarthy. Ray had just turned 70 and looked much like you would
expect from a respectable man of his age and western upbringing;
slacks, shined cowboy boots, long-sleeved snap down shirt, western
style belt and buckle, and a bolo tie. His hair was white, albeit
sparse on top with just a little more on the sides and back. He
regularly wore a stiff straw rancher-style cowboy hat that finished
off the content, retired look quite nicely. Me, well that’s a
different story altogether.
I had long hair (down to my shoulders) that curled up a bit on the
ends. Alright, it was a mullet! (It wasn’t my fault…that was the
style in the early 90’s) I usually wore jeans and a tucked in
t-shirt (regular white undershirt). I had no use for a belt and
typically wore construction style boots with the thick lugged soles.
Both my ears were pierced…twice. I had gold hoops on the bottom and
diamond studs on top. I looked like a cross between an out of work
gay pirate and MacGyver.
For some reason that is still unknown, Ray seemed to like me and
never gave me any guff about my appearance. Even if he thought I was
a weirdo, he always treated me well and we got along great (and
still do!)
Perhaps he sees something in me I don’t fully see in myself. I would
like to think that maybe I remind him of an old buddy from back in
his Army days or maybe he sees a quality in me that harkens back to
a time when men took care of the business at hand yet were
respectful and courteous; a quality from his generation that is
sorely lacking in today’s world. That’s how I try to live my life
and maybe he sees the effort and care I put into myself and my
family.

History
Of The 351st Engineering General Service Regiment
Company "C" G.S. Engineering Regiment 1st Sergeant Charles A. Jarr Morning
report Book: These excerpts from the morning report were copied by Ray
McCarthy, Tech V Mail Clerk - Chronicling a day in the life of this group... |