by Cousi » Mon Apr 15, 2013 2:41 pm
This is what drives me nuts. In some ways, I agree that it takes a village to raise a child. When I was a kid, when I got into something I shouldn't, the Parent Network kicked in. I got yelled at by the responsible parent in the area, then they called my parents and I got it again when I got home. That is the sum total of the village's participation in raising a child. The "village" in this case does not refer to the governing body but rather all of the parents within the village; the community itself. Even then, it was restricted to pointing out what you did wrong and ensuring you were punished for it.
Then you get folks like Hillary Clinton and this moron of the month who claim that children do not belong to their parents. When I see you stopping by my house at 2am to see if my kid needs their diaper changed or holding them after they've had a nightmare, then I'll admit you are assisting in the parenting. When I see a member of DSS or CSS or DPS or whatever acronym is used in your state for the department of "we take your kids away" actually holding the hair of my daughter when she's puking her guts out into the toilet because the virus of the month is making its rounds of the incubation grounds we call 'public school' then I'll listen to their opinions on how to discipline my child. When they're with them every day, offering gentle guidance in how to do something, encouraging them when they're down, yelling at them when they need it and hugging them when they want it, then they can say they're raising the child and that they have a say in that child's life. When they're the ones figuring out how to squeeze the money out of the budget so that maybe they can go to the movies with their friends this weekend or maybe they can get those shoes they really like, then they can pass judgement about how I parent.
Don't you sit there on your high horse in front of the cameras with your perfectly coiffed hair and makeup that was applied by the hourly wage plebes of the studio and tell me that I need to get used to the idea that my child that I sacrifice for, that I give up my own identity for, that I've cuddled, cried with, laughed with, eat with, live and learn with is not mine. Especially when you have glorified the single moms that are not struggling for their child working three jobs, but rather those living off the government teat on my money so their kids can have X-Boxes I can't afford and ride bicycles I can't afford and watch cable TV I can't afford. Madam; with absolutely no respect whatsoever because frankly you do not deserve any, you have no right to pontificate and I would appreciate it if you'd just shut your over-educated, over-paid, hyper-evaluated and self-serving pie hole. </rant>
"When the mob and the press and the whole WORLD tell you to move, your job is to plant yourself like a tree beside the River of Truth and tell the whole WORLD:
'No, YOU move.'" - Captain America
It's still the same old story
A fight for love and glory
A case of do or die.
The world will always welcome lovers
As time goes by.
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